Monday, March 30, 2015

Vermutlich lohnt es sich, schleimend rumzuschleichen um Ziele zu erreichen.


Moin!

And here we are at the end of another transfer, and this one was seemingly faster than the last one. I believe that will be a common occurring thought as the time continues to go forward throughout the rest of the mission. As each passing day goes by the more silly it seems that the mission will actually come to an end someday. To think back before I even came on a mission and was kind of worried how it would be to get used to the mission life and having such strict rules and schedules to follow through with. Now it is just an everyday occurrence. Even being in Germany itself has no real hold on me anymore. It would honestly be unsettling to suddenly end up in an environment where everything was in English and everyone around me was speaking English. It would probably be interesting to be in an environment where the people didn't have the German mentality or behavior. In all honesty the longer I am on a mission the scarier it actually feels to even think about going home. I even had a dream the other day where I was home for some unknown reason and all I am thinking during this dream is what am I doing back home?! I need to get back there, which is where I need to be! So basically the metamorphosis is almost complete.

Sometimes the struggle is real. And I mean when it comes to writing letters. Because of the fact I feel like an 80 year old man who can't remember anything except for the most random things. Not to mention that this week was very uneventful. Let us see what I can find within my mind.

 Okay I got something to talk about I think. So something as a missionary that we have to do, whether you already know about it or not, is something called an exchange. Or as we call it in Germany, “an Austausch”. So more often than not you would hear us say to each other. "Are you going on Austausch?" Sometimes the Danglisch is unreal but okay back to the real details. So during these exchanges, we exchange with the district leader or the district leaders companion which we like to call the District Frau sometimes, not the nicest of terms but funny nonetheless and nobody takes offense. And so the district leader has an exchange with every elder in his district at least once during the transfer, so unless you are the district leader you end up going on about 2 exchanges per transfer. And for some unknown reason the last 4 exchanges that we have had, I have been the one that has stayed in Bremerhaven. Which means that I get all the responsibility for those days that we exchange because it is my area and whoever is with me is only there for the day so basically they don't make any decisions and just follow my lead. Personally I am not the biggest fan of exchanges because far more often than not they don't achieve their purpose. Depending on the missionaries an exchange is usually one of two things. You are either with the district leader and you are putting on your "tausch" pants because they are going to be reporting everything back to the mission president about the exchange. Or you are with his companion and the exchange becomes a mini-vacation. Neither of which I really agree with because it defeats the point of the exchange. The reason why I am talking about this is because I had an exchange this week.

Something else that happened this week.....Elder Pilling and I were invited to play indoor soccer with one of the younger members and his friends. That was pretty fun and it feels kind of cool to be the foreigner for once. Although I am not too sure they liked how aggressive we played. Hehe. It is kinda weird when they invite us to parties afterwards like we are normal people or something. It is gonna be an interesting transition someday let me tell you. Other than that this week was pretty standard with some extra standard on the side. We found a pretty cool young German. We had some appointments, we had church, and we had lots of rain and wind especially today, although it seems to be clearing up at the moment. It seems the activity nights are dying once again and nobody showed up so that is lame. Hopefully we can reignite the flame for that. Recently most of our attention has been focused on the fact that we have to find somewhere, where we can do baptisms in Bremerhaven because of extenuating circumstances. And because we don't have a baptismal font here we have to do it in the ocean or a pond or something but that will be really cold. So we are trying to have a pool somewhere but yeah really no idea at the moment. When it comes down to it we will do whatever we have to but it is always nice to make sure it is as comfortable as possible. 

Sorry this edition of the Elder Foster Adventures wasn't so exciting, let's just say it was writer's block and I had to make up for it is putting a filler-episode in there or something. But naturally I think and pray for you all and I hope that you all have a nice week.

Tschüss,

Elder Foster




Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Schöner ist, wer nicht die Stirn kraus zieht.


 Mion!

...gewöhnungsbedürftig und beispiellos verwunderlich, So unvorstellbar unbeschreiblich und sonderbar!

You know by the time I will have finished my mission I think I will have written enough in my letters and in my journals that it would be comparable unto a few lengthy novels. That will be an interesting thing to look back on indeed. But oh how useful they will be in the future because there are already people whose names I have forgotten that I knew back in my first area of Hannover. That is kind of a scary thing to say the least. That is why I need to take more pictures or at least send them so they are saved off somewhere. I already regret taking little to no pictures in Hannover so I think this time I will rectify that mistake.

So let us get straight to the matter why don't we? So yesterday I had the great opportunity to confirm someone a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and give them the gift of the Holy Ghost. That was very cool and now I can actually say that I have both baptized and confirmed people on my mission so that is pretty cool although besides the point. It was definitely a special experience and I could really say that I felt the spirit giving me the words that I needed to say. It is an often heard saying that one should seek to build his gifts and talents. I certainly feel the desire to develop this gift of the spirit and to know he is there as I give blessings in the future. It is definitely a gift that is above that of the gift of tongues.

So these past couples of weeks, here and there, we have been doing some evening sport with our newly converted member Paul. And oh let me tell you what a great breath or maybe more like a lot of intake of fresh air that has been. It is much nicer to be able to work out at night and a whole lot more energy too. Because at 6:30 in the morning as we just barely roll out of bed you can feel the desperation and the struggle occurring as me try to move ourselves to do anything. As I zombily try to do some push-ups and sit-ups in my Aztec looking robe. So now that we have this wonderful opportunity to get outside and do something a little bit more active. I have only come to find how much strength that I have actually lost. Boo! But oh something else random is that we don't even sleep in our bedroom because one my companion likes to sleep on the floor for some reason haha it’s more comfortable than our beds apparently and two because every morning from around 4:30 to 6:30 which is when we actually get up. The alarm clock of our neighbor who lives through the wall goes off. And literally quite literally like clock-work it goes off every 15 minutes as he continually hits the snooze button. Who in their right mind has to have an alarm go off for two hours in order to get up in the morning?!?! Let us just say I wasn't exactly filled with charity for our neighbor. So now we sleep in our living room, my companion on the floor and me on a mattress on the floor that I pulled out of our bedroom. Our bedroom is now only a place where we store and change our clothes.

So we are still plagued with the curse of finding people only to have the appointments fall out on us which only makes us waste our time. And then go on to find more people that will do the exact same thing to us. Something else that has just barely come to my mind is how important it is that we have a prophet. Because I can't tell you how many people we talk to who say they are catholic or evangelisch (protestant) but then have completely different views of doctrine. Like for instance just today we talked to a man who said that he was catholic but then said he doesn't believe in a life after this one. God lives in heaven but apparently we aren't going to be there with him. But if you asked another catholic they would probably say that was completely false. Or another guy who said that he was envangelisch said that Christ said he didn't need a church. But if you once again ask another person who is evangelisch they would tell you that was false as well. The point is how can all these people say the read the bible and understand it and even be a part of the exact same church but have completely different views of principles and doctrines. Now I can't say that everyone in our church sees everything the exact same way, however because we have a prophet because we have a direct line back to heavenly father you can definitely see how much more united our testimonies and teachings of Jesus Christ are. It doesn't depend on the bishop or branch president in what we actually believe in but rather lead by the holy spirit that helps lead us to believe that these things are true and the at we do have a prophet today. Pretty cool basically haha.

If there has been anything that has been exemplified these past few weeks or maybe more accurately this past few months, I would have to say that is is persistence. Recently a couple of days ago I came across a statement that Heber J. Grant often liked to quote. "That which we persist in doing becomes easier for us to do--not that the nature of the thing is changed, but that our power to do is increased." Despite any kind of hardships or any difficulties, when I have persisted to keep the commandments, to fulfill my calling as a missionary, to look beyond my own progression and look to helping others to progress, and to build the kingdom of God on earth. My ability and capacity to be happy has increased beyond what I ever could have imagined. So be persistent in those things that are worth striving for! As always I hope all is well back home and I think about ya and I love ya.

Tschüss,

Elder Foster

 

Tuesday, March 17, 2015

Zum ersten mal seit Ewigkeiten!


 

Moin moin!
Hallo meine geehrte Damen und Herren! Wie geht es euch?! Habt ihr mich vermisst? Wahrscheinlich nicht meine Briefe, weil die so schlecht sind. Aber vielleicht mein Gesicht. Na ja! Ihr habt genug Bilde von mir.

Okay now starts the real letter. And this week I have some good news to say the least. Because last Saturday Paul Gogula was baptized! Woot! It has been a long time since I have seen one of those things. After much hard work and many blessings we have seen the first fruits of success here in Bremerhaven. And actually that is not all! If everything goes well, we will have another baptism in two weeks! Definitely exciting times to say the least. Really I am just at a loss for words it was nice. And it was kind of hard to imagine there for a little while. I still can't quite comprehend that we just had a baptism or that we just planned for one and did all sorts of things that were necessary in order to have one take place. There is certainly a brighter sort of hope that was developed inside of me. Not too long ago in this area it was hard to get 2 or 3 lessons a week. But now we are getting far above that and we are even baptizing people. We have truly been blessed and led by the Lord.

It really is cool to meet so many different while on a mission, and to honestly take a good look into people's lives that normally wouldn't happen unless you were first really good friends. Take for instance yesterday we talked to a guy from Nigeria on the train back to Bremerhaven form Cuxhaven. He had already gotten a Bachelors degree in business and is currently in Germany to learn the language and eventually get a Masters degree. Ha he chose an interesting language to learn that is for sure. This guy also looked like he was 24 maybe 25 and we are just talking to him and asking him about his life and by the way he is actually 33. That was a shock for us. And he was a very cool guy; he was definitely one of the more affluent Africans that I have met since being in Germany. But it is interesting because from what I have learned from the many foreigners that I have talked to in Germany. My opinion is that Germany is the place to get an education and a job but it is the place where your religion dies! Haha everyone that comes here just stops going to church, okay granted they don't always know the language that well and come on who is gonna learn religious words in a new language that would be crazy.....Unfortunately Germany is more oriented towards school and work more than anything else. And as long as you call yourself catholic or evangelisch (protestant) and you have your baptismal and confirmation paper somewhere then that is good enough to say that you have your own faith and therefore need nothing else. We still find the gems in the rough nonetheless. I totally just veered off from what I was originally saying but na ja. But yeah it is just cool to get to know so many different people from so many different walks of life. If only people would open up to us just a little bit more.  Real quick of some more examples of people. Frau Antar who is a young native German but who is half African and half Turkish, very interesting mix. She is Muslim but very nice and very open and willing to learn about other religions. She likes to say "whoa das ist heftig" a lot which makes me laugh because it sounds kind of like something a surfer-dude would say. And she says when she goes to church she doesn't feel whole? haha don't know exactly how to translate that. "ich fühle mich nicht wohl." And then there is Chilly Willy who is an American from Georgia who owns a little American-food mini restaurant. He is literally one of the coolest guys I have met and he has blue eyes although he is black, first time I have met someone with that. And he is also hilarious, and we even played guitar and sang summer of 69 with him right in his small restaurant. So here is this guy who is super nice, super funny, and literally everybody in Bremerhaven knows him but there were a few moments when we were with him that there seemed to be a kind of sadness about him......So it is great to be able to meet such great people and really get to know them but not only that but to share something with them that will not only make them happy now but will also help them to overcome any kind of trouble in life. That is one of many things I love about the gospel of Jesus Christ it is truly an enabling force. People who are true to the gospel are not free of trouble or hard times, but there always have the way to overcome them and to be happy despite them.

Okay one last person I need to talk about before I end my letter. So the person that will be baptized in the next two weeks is Dijanna Bsedes from Serbia who is only 14 years old. When you look at her you wouldn't think that she was only 14 though. Even yesterday a member asked us if she was married....and then we had to explain to him that she was only 14. Haha anyways I admire this girl so much. She is only 14 but she can speak pretty dang good English and because her parents can barely speak German or English she is the one who talks to the lawyers and the police because they are foreigners and still don't have their permanent visas yet. She also just got accepted for an internship to become a doctor someday. Basically we love her and her parents and they love us and even the other day while I was on exchange with Elder Germann, the district leader we taught her one of the lessons and she opened up to us like I have never seen before and told us spiritual experiences that she had back in Serbia that I can't relate to even in the slightest and yeah it is just awesome and I am excited for her and so impressed she does so much and has so much responsibility to carry despite only being 14.

 

Well I hope this letter was something a little bit different and I hope you now have a little bit better of an idea of who I talk to and the kind of experiences that I have. Even though I can't even write down a hundredth of them, or remember that much in this very instant. I hope all is going well back in the good ol' U.S. of A. or wherever you might be. Thinking of and praying for you always. 

 

Tschüss,

Elder Foster

 

P.S. Sorry if the formatting or whatever is horrible the computer I am using right now, not the usual one, doesn't allow me to make edits without deleting things all over the place.
 

Monday, March 9, 2015

Ich fande mich zu einem ungeheueren Ungeziefer verwandelt!






Moin! (If you haven't noticed, probably my favorite greeting in German so far)

This week was definitely a long week to say the least. We were in Oldenburg three times this week for zone training meeting and district conference. So all the traveling on trains and buses took a little bit of life out of me. And to add to it, Elder Pilling and I got sick somewhere randomly in the middle of the week, even still feeling it a little bit now as I am here writing this and of course the weekly disappointments. And oh yeah we (not me) lost the phone twice this week, first time we got it back by divine intervention and the second time....yeah its probably gone for good now, so now we are phoneless until we get a new one from the office. So it was a long week. However that is not to say that it was entirely a bad week.


So there is one thing that I am excited to say about this coming week, it is that one of our investigators is getting baptized on Saturday. Woo! Finally! It took a while but we finally got this program running in Bremerhaven. It is cool to see how excited he is and that he is looking towards things even after baptism and that this is really only the beginning. And in case you are confused to who it is because I don't always put names in my emails, his name is Paul and he is from India, who is currently studying here in Bremerhaven to get his masters in some complicated degree that I can never remember. He is literally a gift from God. Elder Pilling and I have a pretty cool relationship with him too. He isn't just an investigator or it isn't really just like a professional or formal relationship at all like it can sometimes be with an investigator but rather we are just like friends. Okay, okay I know you want to befriend all of the people you teach. But it is just different for us and it is just natural. Actually something random to that is that Elder Pilling and I are starting a calisthenics workout routine with him. And oh boy is it needed for both of us. Not that I am gaining weight because I am not and I am already convinced that I will never have to worry about that on my mission but rather my general health is just falling. Haha we don't always eat the greatest and a half-hearted slash half-alive 30 minute workout at 6:30 in the morning doesn't usually do a whole lot. So it's cool that we get this opportunity to do this with him. 


Also something else I am happy to report about is that this week we had a pretty good turnout for our activity night that we have on Fridays. We had plenty of members and there were some investigators too there as well. It was ideal and we could tell that the members bonded a little bit more with our investigators. So that was great, although we were playing ligretto which is like the game of speed but even more intense wh means every time I had to be really fast and slam my cards all over the table in order to beat someone else to it. My head felt like it was going to explode because I was still sick at that time. I just hope that we can continue to see such success with this activity night idea.


Hmmm what else. Another interesting experience this week was during district conference in Oldenburg. So we had one of the area seventies there and he was actually from France and so whenever he got up to give a talk, it wasn't in German and it wasn't in French either but it was in English and then somebody standing right next to him would translate it into German. So I just found that a little bit funny and it is certainly interesting to see because you never experience these type of things back home or have to worry about translations of any kind for that matter and once again to mention that English is literally the world language no doubt about it. Haha


I don't know what else this week haha the past couple days I have just wanted to lay in bed and sleep because I haven't been feeling too well. But of course we had to have appointments, boo! I know right?! Haha just kidding it is great whenever we have the opportunity to teach people and I am more than happy to go out of my way to have the opportunity to sit down and honestly teach and bear testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ. And time is running out. Who knows when the next chapter of my mission will begin and I will be serving somewhere else. Or eventually when I come back home and will have the opportunity to teach or to share in ways I have never done before. Mission life is definitely interesting and exciting. Sometimes it feels like I will always be a missionary in Germany. It feels weird to think that I won't be living in Germany someday or that I won't be using buses and trains to get everywhere.


Well anyways I hope that all goes well back home. I think of you and pray for you all as well. And once and a while I think about what I should actually do with my life when I get back home. Something that I have been considering recently is international business. Any thoughts about that? I don't know I got to figure something out eventually. Haha I love you all and until next time.


Tschüss,
Elder Foster